Narcissists tend to be incapable of something called “object constancy.” This means they struggle to have positive feelings at the same time as negative ones. For example, once they are fired up for a fight, they can be incredibly cruel, because all they can comprehend in the moment are feelings of resentment and anger. As a result, an argument about the smallest of issues can escalate quickly and fiercely. … Continue reading Stop an Argument with a Narcissist before Spinning Out of Control